For many, Brazilian waxes are a beauty ritual that comes with an unavoidable level of discomfort.
But esthetician Jataisha Jenkins says that pain during a wax isn’t always inevitable, it could be a sign that your appointment schedule needs a rethink. “The timing of your Brazilian wax can dramatically affect how your skin reacts and how much it hurts,” Jenkins explains.
Hair growth cycles play a crucial role in waxing comfort. The ideal window for a Brazilian wax is typically every four to six weeks. Scheduling too soon after your last session can catch hair before it’s fully grown, leading to extra tugging and more pain. On the other hand, waiting too long can result in hair that is too long and coarse, which also increases discomfort. Finding a consistent rhythm tailored to your growth pattern is key.
Jenkins also notes that individual factors, like hormonal fluctuations, stress, and even diet, can influence hair growth and sensitivity. For Black women, who may experience different hair textures and curl patterns, this timing becomes even more important. Adjusting your waxing schedule to accommodate these factors can make each session smoother and less painful.
Preparation before your appointment matters just as much as timing. Exfoliating the area a day or two before can prevent ingrown hairs and make the wax more effective. Moisturizing daily helps maintain skin elasticity, reducing irritation. Jenkins emphasizes that combining proper prep with the right waxing interval maximizes comfort and keeps the skin healthy.
Post-wax care is equally critical. Using soothing products like aloe or fragrance-free oils helps calm the skin, while avoiding tight clothing and hot baths for 24 hours can prevent irritation and breakouts. Consistency in both scheduling and aftercare ensures that each session improves rather than worsens the experience.
Ultimately, a painful Brazilian wax isn’t just a “normal” part of the process, it can be a sign that your waxing schedule isn’t aligned with your body’s natural growth. By paying attention to timing, preparing correctly, and following proper aftercare, you can significantly reduce discomfort while maintaining smooth, healthy skin. “Listen to your body,” Jenkins advises. “Waxing should be effective, but it shouldn’t be unnecessarily painful.”
